But like... I almost don't blame parents nowadays for failing to discipline their kids when they are one call to CPS away from landing in jail if they do. Like how do you exercise authority over someone if they have a ready at hand "get-out-of-jail-free" card always at hand?
Similar, aren't men in the same boat with women? Remember the recording from the Depp/Heard trial? "Call for help, who's going to believe you?" Nowadays I don't question why so many men are going trans - I question why so FEW are since it's an immediate trump card you can wave around. Like CS Lewis said in Abolition of Man - "we remove the organ then demand its function. We laugh at honor then are shocked to find cowards jn our midst."
I feel old at 45 years old. Where and when I grew up, the 90’s latchkey-kid era in NYC, violent, rule-breaking (including criminality), flamboyant, loud, and brazen men (that includes scum of the earth) monopolized a fair share of women. Certainly not people I want near my daughter when she starts dating, but far different than the schlemiels you call millstone husbands. Many boomer dads I grew up around could be described as such—air-headed, uninvolved, checked out.
Do you mean the overcorrections were lax, permissive parenting (Dr. Spock style) and feminization of men? Much of the feminization has occurred because of fatherless homes and homes with air-headed (millstone, as you call it) dads. Being aware of all this, I believe I have a clear plan for guiding my son. I’ve liked several of your articles so far.
Correct. By the way, if you haven’t yet and have strong interest in the subjects we discuss here, I STRONGLY suggest you read The Case for Father Custody by Dr. Daniel Amneus, Who Lost America? and The New Politics of Sex by Dr. Stephen Baskerville, and Sexual Utopia in Power: The Feminist Revolt Against Civilization by F. Roger Devlin.
I also read your article on Pearl, nearly all of which I agreed with. While, like Rollo, I know that some men resent others with a knack Dr fornicating with numerous women. What I don’t like, is that he sees body-count shaming only through the lens of envy and resentment. Female promiscuity has had profound social consequences, including incentivized divorce, broken homes, male violence, and involuntary cuckoldry. Dr. Daniel Amneus called the link between male violence and female promiscuity “Siamese twins”. Even Tupac said, “when b—s get horny, n—s die!”
A problem I have, especially with some of the new iterations of feminism it that men are either toxic patriarchy alphas or spineless milquetoast beta cucks. Like personalities, masculinity is a spectrum. In that recent social phenomenon, a lot of women chose the bear. If you're a survivor of S.A., I can understand why, but also seen a video of a couple of men in a fishing boat coming across a couple young women who got swept out to sea and were treading water and close to drowning. It wasn't a bear driving that boat and paws that pulled them up out of the water and covered them in their coats to warm them up. I know, one instance, but there are many others instances like that out there where a strange man helped a woman in need. Not all men are assaulters. But many men will help a fellow human in need.
There needs to be better representation of men in media as they are often portrayed at far ends of the spectrum. Even in school, my son who is now 23, when he was in first and second grade, he was a boy being a boy but they wanted to spiritually castrate him calling him out on stuff that is natural for boys - being full of energy and not wanting to sit like a little zombie for 8 hours straight, not allowed to run during recess or lunch to work off that extra energy. A boy who was being a boy (he was not harassing others or bullying), drawing tanks firing weapons - that he saw on Mythbusters - was being treated like it was a bad thing.
Treating masculinity as if it is toxic will cause some women to think that they don't need a man. Men are not the enemies. The right man will be a life partner, who will be your best friend, the one that has your back and you his, no matter what. There is nothing toxic about having someone who will be there for you when you need help.
You're right.
But like... I almost don't blame parents nowadays for failing to discipline their kids when they are one call to CPS away from landing in jail if they do. Like how do you exercise authority over someone if they have a ready at hand "get-out-of-jail-free" card always at hand?
Similar, aren't men in the same boat with women? Remember the recording from the Depp/Heard trial? "Call for help, who's going to believe you?" Nowadays I don't question why so many men are going trans - I question why so FEW are since it's an immediate trump card you can wave around. Like CS Lewis said in Abolition of Man - "we remove the organ then demand its function. We laugh at honor then are shocked to find cowards jn our midst."
I feel old at 45 years old. Where and when I grew up, the 90’s latchkey-kid era in NYC, violent, rule-breaking (including criminality), flamboyant, loud, and brazen men (that includes scum of the earth) monopolized a fair share of women. Certainly not people I want near my daughter when she starts dating, but far different than the schlemiels you call millstone husbands. Many boomer dads I grew up around could be described as such—air-headed, uninvolved, checked out.
Do you mean the overcorrections were lax, permissive parenting (Dr. Spock style) and feminization of men? Much of the feminization has occurred because of fatherless homes and homes with air-headed (millstone, as you call it) dads. Being aware of all this, I believe I have a clear plan for guiding my son. I’ve liked several of your articles so far.
Correct. By the way, if you haven’t yet and have strong interest in the subjects we discuss here, I STRONGLY suggest you read The Case for Father Custody by Dr. Daniel Amneus, Who Lost America? and The New Politics of Sex by Dr. Stephen Baskerville, and Sexual Utopia in Power: The Feminist Revolt Against Civilization by F. Roger Devlin.
I also read your article on Pearl, nearly all of which I agreed with. While, like Rollo, I know that some men resent others with a knack Dr fornicating with numerous women. What I don’t like, is that he sees body-count shaming only through the lens of envy and resentment. Female promiscuity has had profound social consequences, including incentivized divorce, broken homes, male violence, and involuntary cuckoldry. Dr. Daniel Amneus called the link between male violence and female promiscuity “Siamese twins”. Even Tupac said, “when b—s get horny, n—s die!”
A problem I have, especially with some of the new iterations of feminism it that men are either toxic patriarchy alphas or spineless milquetoast beta cucks. Like personalities, masculinity is a spectrum. In that recent social phenomenon, a lot of women chose the bear. If you're a survivor of S.A., I can understand why, but also seen a video of a couple of men in a fishing boat coming across a couple young women who got swept out to sea and were treading water and close to drowning. It wasn't a bear driving that boat and paws that pulled them up out of the water and covered them in their coats to warm them up. I know, one instance, but there are many others instances like that out there where a strange man helped a woman in need. Not all men are assaulters. But many men will help a fellow human in need.
There needs to be better representation of men in media as they are often portrayed at far ends of the spectrum. Even in school, my son who is now 23, when he was in first and second grade, he was a boy being a boy but they wanted to spiritually castrate him calling him out on stuff that is natural for boys - being full of energy and not wanting to sit like a little zombie for 8 hours straight, not allowed to run during recess or lunch to work off that extra energy. A boy who was being a boy (he was not harassing others or bullying), drawing tanks firing weapons - that he saw on Mythbusters - was being treated like it was a bad thing.
Treating masculinity as if it is toxic will cause some women to think that they don't need a man. Men are not the enemies. The right man will be a life partner, who will be your best friend, the one that has your back and you his, no matter what. There is nothing toxic about having someone who will be there for you when you need help.