Military veteran and fantasy author Melissa Cave joins the show to discuss why "Romantasy" has become a slur in the reading community and how she is fighting back with historical realism. Melissa breaks down the difference between aesthetic-focused trends and deep world-building, explaining why readers are starving for believable male characters who don't sound like they're from 2026 Los Angeles. She also reveals her bold "all-in" business strategy, writing six full novels before publishing the first, and details exactly where she spent her budget to hit the Amazon bestseller lists without relying on a massive social media following.
In This Episode
Romantasy vs. Reality: Why “romantic” fantasy often devolves into soap opera slop with a thin magical veneer.
The “2026 Los Angeles” Problem: How modern dialogue and behavior are ruining historical immersion.
Writing Believable Men: Why making female characters “strong” shouldn’t mean erasing distinct male roles or military realism.
The Anti-Hookup Culture: Exploring the “slow burn” of arranged marriage and why two virgins navigating a relationship is the new counter-culture.
The 6-Book Gamble: Melissa’s strategy of writing the entire series before launch to ensure quality and avoid “George R.R. Martin syndrome”.
Paying for Performance: Why Melissa skipped the “organic platform building” grind and went straight to paid advertising (and which ads actually worked).
The Minimum Viable Launch: The three things every indie author must pay for: Covers, Editing, and Formatting.
Building vs. Destroying: Moving past the “grimdark” obsession with destruction to tell stories about building civilization.
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READ EMPIRE OF THE STARS: https://amzn.to/4rGe8iU
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IG @melissaj.cave
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Timestamps
00:00 - Introduction and Overview of Romantic Fantasy
01:21 - Interview with Melissa Cave: Background and Achievements
01:55 - Writing Believable Characters and Historical Accuracy
04:03 - Romantic vs. Historical Fantasy: Key Differences
06:10 - Building a Fantasy World: Research and Realism
16:29 - Marketing Strategies for Indie Authors
28:47 - The Importance of Quality and Investment in Publishing
37:44 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts
About This Podcast
Nonsense-Free Kristin is where independent authors and creators learn to build their platforms, master their craft, and create on their own terms—without begging for permission from gatekeepers who hate them.
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